Our Values

These values define the heart of Best of Our KIND – a movement helping people communicate with kindness, confidence, and respect in everyday life, online and offline.

Kindness

Kindness sits at the centre of everything we do, not as politeness or performance, but as thoughtful, intentional behaviour that considers the emotional experience of others.

Kindness is not passive. It is a calm, steady strength. Kindness is a practised skill that can be learned, strengthened, and shared.

And it begins inwardly. Many people speak to themselves more harshly than they ever would to someone they care about. We believe self-kindness is foundational to emotional wellbeing, confidence, and communication. By learning to treat ourselves with kindness, patience and understanding, we create the emotional space to engage with others more gently and thoughtfully.

You cannot offer to the world what you withhold from yourself.

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Respect

Every person deserves dignity and space to speak, learn, feel, and be heard.

We respect differences in beliefs, culture, communication style, and lived experience. Respect isn’t earned through agreement; it is offered because dignity should never be conditional.

We honour the complexity in others, even when we disagree.

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Courage

Kindness can feel vulnerable. Speaking gently where others speak sharply, holding boundaries with care, or expressing a difficult truth with warmth: all of these require courage.

We believe courage is not volume. It is clarity. It is showing up with intention, even when it feels easier to stay silent or react sharply.

Kindness takes backbone. This is brave, gentle communication – the courage to be kind even when conversations feel difficult.

Curiosity

We value curiosity over judgement.

Instead of assuming, we ask. Instead of reacting, we pause. Curiosity allows connection even when perspectives differ. 

It creates space for understanding, not as agreement, but as recognition that someone else’s experience may be shaped by things we cannot see.

Curiosity is how we stay open.

Honesty with Care

We believe in truthful communication expressed gently.

Kindness is not avoidance; it allows difficult conversations to happen with clarity and respect. 

Honesty without care can wound. Care without honesty can obscure. Together, they create communication that protects dignity whilst honouring truth.

You can be gentle and still be clear.

Boundaries

Kindness does not require permanence, access, or tolerance of harm.

We can step away without hostility. We can say ‘no’ without apology. We can protect what matters to us with firmness and respect. 

Boundaries are not unkind; they are essential. They protect our energy so compassion remains possible.

Saying ‘no’ can be an act of kindness, to yourself and to others.

Humility

We recognise that we do not know everything, and we do not need to.

We make room for correction, new information, and perspectives we may never have lived. 

Humility allows us to learn, grow, and remain open, even when it feels uncomfortable.

We allow imperfection without punishment.

Inclusivity

Our work welcomes all, across ages, cultures, identities, beliefs, and experiences.

This movement is for children learning to name their feelings, for young people navigating social complexity, for adults rebuilding communication patterns, for elders sharing wisdom gained through decades of conversation.

It is for people of all genders, all political leanings, all faiths, or no faith at all.

We remain neutral in politics and religion, and grounded in universal human connection. Kindness is not filtered by identity. It is available to anyone willing to practise it.

Hope

We believe communication can become kinder, not through grand gestures, but through consistent human moments.

Hope is not a naïve belief that everything is already good. It is the grounded belief that things can become better: one conversation, one pause, one moment of awareness at a time.

Hope reminds us that one misstep does not erase all progress. That change is gradual. That small acts accumulate into something larger than themselves.

We believe a kinder communication culture is possible, because people like you are already building it.

These values define the heart of Best of Our KIND. They guide how we create, communicate, and show up in the world.